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Great Sex!

What counts most for optimal sexual experiences: erections, orgasms or love and connecting?

© George Hartwell M.Sc., 2009, www.HealMyLife.com.  (416) 234-1850.  georgeh (at) interlog.com.

Great Sex - optimal sexual experiences - are not as dependent upon erections and orgasms as the mass media (and my spam folder) suggest. 

It is more about love and connecting.

A recent study points to the following 7 factors:

1.  Focus on the Moment

2.  Emotional Connection or Bonding

3.  Authentic and Spontaneous 

4.  Vulnerability - giving up control

5.  Erotic intimacy

6.  Learning, Exploring, Risk-taking

7.  Good Communication

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